STILL here...even after I quit.

[ninelives]

For all intents, although not officially divorced, I may as well be. We did the legal sep. route and it went fairly quickly.

I pay her $200 per month for child suporrt as we split custody of our youngest per week and the oldest is with me full time. No spousal.

I bought her out of the house so she is off the mortgage. I gave her all our rrsp, $30 thousand and kept her on my benefits.
In exchane, she didnt touch my pension.

So even though its not a divorce, it sure feels like one. Its just the terms on a piece of paper that are different.

Hang in there BTW. I was HIT today with a wave of strength that I CANNOT let one GIRL dictate how IM going to live the rest of my life. WE CANT give them that much POWER. ITS our lives. Sure, its one of the worst things we could have imagined but it IS real and now WE have to deal with it.

Faith, 25, 2step, Starsky, Country sooooooo many Bits and others nailed it. WE have to DROP that DAMN rope once and for all. Got to swim to the other shore and not look back.

You have decent money, you are still youngish. Time to look forward and take the positives. CMON BTM, lets do it for real.

LET GO ALREADY.

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