What troubles me about 25's post is she comes off as if she knows every sitch.
I will not just follow every poster like sheep to a Shepard.
There is truth to her post for some and BS for others.
It depends on each individual sitch.
But I refuse to be a sheep.
There ARE LBS'ers that are truly genuine in their M. That were wronged by a WAS. Not that they did EVERYTHING right. But they gave everything they had to the marriage.
But of course we rarely discuss that possibility here.
And let me state that I am not in any way angry.
Just giving a different perspective.
I know your situation and I think you are not being honest with the board or yourself. Go back and read your old posts.
As was once said here, it is very rare for a person to leave a happy, fulling and complete marriage. Now maybe you are the .00001%. The in that case, this site is of no use to you anymore.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
