Good morning LP ltns.......after reading your last few posts I understand a little bit better where your coming from.
My family didn't yell and scream...they just didnt communicate at all. " If you dont talk about it, I guess nothing was wrong " Sorta like burying your head in the sand, Until that did not work anymore then all heck would break loose. My Dad had a couple of breakdowns, which we were told He was tired and needed quiet and to leave him alone???
I didn't realize what was happening with him until much later in life.
Your goals I think need to be a litte more defined....and then stick to them. " Stop the pain and remove myself from the stich. " ?? How do you plan on stopping the pain?
Pain goes hand and hand with seperation / Divorce. so.... feel it, work thru it...then concentrate on you. Keep up with your gal"ing and step back.
I have said several times on these boards about how my hubby stepped back, and gave me time and space to the point of Letting me miss him. Best thing he ever did. Be mysterious...Shes watching......
JMHO.......go with a friend, have a ball....let loose, and be careful! If you go with your wife I think yor gonna be walking on egg shells, and worring too much to enjoy yourself
