Well, things are as up in the air as usual. I got all over XH's L, who finally ( after 4 weeks ) sent a copy of the Judge's Decision to XH, and I got the long awaited scream that was heard round the world. He completely flipped out, mainly because he didn't understand the wording and took it all as bad news for him. He threatened to "come to the GD house anytime he wanted and take any GD thing he wanted" I had to rent a storage unit, and a friend and I spent the whole day moving valuables into it. There is just no making any sense. Meanwhile, I'm still held up by his a$$hat lawyer not filing the simple decree.
My eldest D took enough offense to call XH and read him the riot act. He just kept saying how it was all MY fault. She asked him "Are you just mad because Mom is moving on and getting a house?" He says "No, it was because I used his Aunt as my realtor. REALLY? He also asked if he could still see grandsons, and she reminded him that he had lived in the same town with them for over a year, and never came once. Now she lives 4.5 hours away. What did he think?
Lord I thought this would all be over by now. It's like the energizer bunny of divorce. I come to work at 7:00 just to read my emails, etc., thought I'd be in my new little house by now. Pray for me guys.
