ooohweee what'sup wit that

[Denver_2010]

What troubles me about 25's post is she comes off as if she knows every sitch.

I will not just follow every poster like sheep to a Shepard.

There is truth to her post for some and BS for others.

It depends on each individual sitch.

But I refuse to be a sheep.

There ARE LBS'ers that are truly genuine in their M. That were wronged by a WAS. Not that they did EVERYTHING right. But they gave everything they had to the marriage.

But of course we rarely discuss that possibility here.

And let me state that I am not in any way angry.

Just giving a different perspective.

25 speaks from her experience and her experience only SBH. If you, or anyone else who reads her posts, can't relate, well, ignore it. All I can say is that there is so much in what she has said on my thread that has given me a very valuable perspective for my situation.

I'm not sure what the status is with your sitch because you haven't updated it for a very long time. But you seem to be spending a lot of time being critical of the insight and advice being given out on other threads. Makes me wonder if things aren't so rosy in your world right now.

And maybe you are looking at this all wrong... maybe you were/are not the LBS in your sitch... maybe YOU are the WAS. Have you thought about that possibility? You claim to have been a very good H... And I don't have any evidence to dispute that... and you seem to continue to have some real issues with your W's behavior during the time that you were posting, ie, her EA. So, are you the WAS right now?

I think that might explain why you are having trouble relating to us LBS's who understand that we played a huge role in driving our WAS's to walk away.

Denver