Originally Posted By: ninelives

HORRORS, am having a real downtime today and I cant explain why.

Want to call her so bad and talk to her. Ask her about what she meant with the quote. HERE comes the downward spiral . Wonder where her head space is at right now.

I wont act on these feelings but they are driving me nuts. I dont know why this is happening.

I am trying very hard to stay the course but I guess today is a major backslide in my GAL. I havent called her but I want to so bad.

I mean ,I have gone dark and it really hasnt changed much. Except that moment of weakness from her about a downward spiral.

Help please.

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Want help?

LET GO!!! Validate her. Realize your happiness doesn't revolve around HER. She is with someone else. There is NOTHING you can do except become A BETTER YOU! YOU are better than him! Know this, get this, feel this. MOVE FORWARD and let her go. The longer YOU feel this way, the longer SHE senses this. Man, you have got to let go and become different than what you are now. YOU have too.

I get it. You want her! BUT you have to understand, you CAN'T have her right now Damn it. Just become the guy YOU know you should be. MAKE HER REGRET HER CHOICE.