My only advice....don't worry too much about what she feels. The goal is to do what makes you and the kids happy right now.
If she still loves you, being mysterious right now is a GOOD thing. Don't feel you owe her...YOU owe yourself to be the best you possible. That does make them intrigued you know? TIME and advice. Keep posting....Sandi is awesome man...you have NO idea. Post and listen.
