What troubles me about 25's post is she comes off as if she knows every sitch.

I will not just follow every poster like sheep to a Shepard.

There is truth to her post for some and BS for others.

It depends on each individual sitch.

But I refuse to be a sheep.

There ARE LBS'ers that are truly genuine in their M. That were wronged by a WAS. Not that they did EVERYTHING right. But they gave everything they had to the marriage.

But of course we rarely discuss that possibility here.

And let me state that I am not in any way angry.

Just giving a different perspective.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012