What troubles me about 25's post is she comes off as if she knows every sitch.
I will not just follow every poster like sheep to a Shepard.
There is truth to her post for some and BS for others.
It depends on each individual sitch.
But I refuse to be a sheep.
There ARE LBS'ers that are truly genuine in their M. That were wronged by a WAS. Not that they did EVERYTHING right. But they gave everything they had to the marriage.
But of course we rarely discuss that possibility here.
And let me state that I am not in any way angry.
Just giving a different perspective.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012