Dazed, Welcome aboard. There is a lot of good advice on this forum and in the books. The fact that you are here is a positive step. My initial advice is to read the books a few times and read as many posts on this forum as time allows. I have learned a lot by following all the threads and the great advice that is exchanged on this community.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.