Dazed, Welcome aboard. There is a lot of good advice on this forum and in the books. The fact that you are here is a positive step. My initial advice is to read the books a few times and read as many posts on this forum as time allows. I have learned a lot by following all the threads and the great advice that is exchanged on this community.


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.