...do my own GALing. Need to be careful not to fall into emotional fusion, and get needy again.
One of the hardest leassons (and one that I have not fully learned) is that in NMMNG and GAL you need to take responsibility for your own happiness and fulfilling your own needs.
A Nice Guy wants to look to his wife as the source of his happiness. Ultimately that will just cause problems.
GAL is about you getting in touch with your "needs" and doing things that make sure your (and your family's) needs are met. Your wife can be the icing on the cake and a true and important source of joy in your life, but don't make her the source of your entire happiness.
See you do know what you are doing, now go out there and do some GAL!
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
