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I think you need to really lay out your case in your own mind right now. Be prepared to explain your actions.

You are right Country. I'm going to start writing everything down. It seems that I remember my responses much better when I put them on paper. Great suggestion.

Also validate her concerns, she'll have plenty I presume.

Indeed. This part should be interesting. I need to put some thought into what her concerns might be and what my reaction/rebuttal to her will be.

But if your actions are truly in the best interest of your children, and you can explain it clearly, I believe she will eventually understand. Don't expect it right away though.

Yeah, I don't expect her to understand immediately. I expect an emotion of rage from her when she finds out that I reneged on our agreement. Hopefully she will understand my decision someday. Ultimately, I know that I am making the right decision.

Let the L's handle as much as possible. I won't sugar coat it, this is going to be tough. Stand tall and be proud you are being the best dad you can be.

Absolutely, my intent is to be the best dad possible. This is the last thing I wanted to do, but there was no other choice. I finally feel comfortable with my decision, despite what the outcome will be.