Why would she want me of all people to know this. Shouldnt she be going on like her life is exactly how should would want it right now?
That ^^ would be the case IF her life were exactly how she wants it right now. I HIGHLY doubt that this is the case. She contacts you 'of all people' bc she wants to make sure that you are still in the game.
You have played this perfectly IMO. You may not be seeing the positive effects of going dark, but that does not mean that they are not happening.
Keep going man. You are doing great. When you are feeling like you are today, find someone other than your W to call... or come here and just write a ton.
Chin up!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
