Many WAS leave the M, say they want a D and do not do a thing about it.
My WAH has done little to move divorce forward. He sent me a separation agreement with only his name and particulars filled in expecting me to do the rest. ( I did nothing.)
Only other thing he's done to my knowledge is the Parenting After Separation course mandated by the Gov't which I also did without his knowledge.
You can see by my signature how long it's been.
I too want someone that's crazy about me and actually enjoys being around me. I don't know if my M can be saved or not. Somedays I think it can other days I'm more pessimistic and figure in the end I'm going to have to be the one to extricate myself from this pit.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.