During MLC they are incapable of love. I do not believe one minute that your ex did not love you. They are projecting their "unlovable" feelings about themselves. Don't buy into his rants, I won't let you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11