We do go to bed at the same time. Her actions are different right now I think mainly because of her feeling towards me right now. Which are completly understandable.

No news is good news, right?! Well I hope so......things have been pretty quiet around the house. She has been much more talkitive over the last few days. I have successfully avoided any R chat or mopeing around. I keep myself pretty busy in the evenings and I think she has noticed this. I continue to give her space, no emailing only text her when I have no other choice. Seems to have helped the tension level. Thanks all ......