18 Wheels and a Dozen Roses

[OnMyWay]

For Father's Day, I'm planning my own thing with my D. After a crappy Mother's Day, I know to leave WAW out of it. However, I will be flexible this weekend and let her set the tone. She has to work on Father's day, so it won't be an issue.

For you, I'd recommend sort of the same - be flexible. Especially since you are stuck in the defensive same passive-agressive place as me. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

They are his kids, so let him figure it out, then support whatever he decides. If it's family time, great. If it's nothing, then it was his choice and, therefore, his loss.