Yep. I have to work on the same thing. I am trying to be here for her and be a nice guy, but I need to be careful that I am not a doormat. She needs to want to have me around. I am trying to detach and be aloof. Not easy.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012