Yep. I have to work on the same thing. I am trying to be here for her and be a nice guy, but I need to be careful that I am not a doormat. She needs to want to have me around. I am trying to detach and be aloof. Not easy.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012