MF Well, 11 years later I can say YES!! We now have 4 kids, she tells me she loves me a lot and calls me Babe frequently. Just the other day our youngest was mocking her saying "Hey Babe" - it was funny! Was it worth it? Considering the alternative was divorce and split family - I'll take what I have. Is everyday a 10? Of course not, but it wouldn't have been otherwise either and I will say we probably actually have more 10 days than we would have had. Am I glad to have went through it? No, it was very heart wrenching and painful. Am I glad I chose to go through with it (DBing) once I found myself in it? A resounding Yes! I wish all of you out there success. Focus on what YOU can do. In the end she had a choice as well, I just worked my behind off to try to make that choice the most irresistable one!
