KD, I don't think that'll work here with W. If she were a potential GF, I'd pursue her if I were interested. In this sitch, that won't work, as any pursuit of W is taken as me pushing to get our M back in line. My best course of action here is inaction, I think. When I try avoid her, it piques her curiosity, she comes around more, and "feels me out." When I make the moves, she's uninterested. Best I leave her be.
Besides, I'm beginning to hate/dread the backlash. It makes the good times not worth the effort knowing the next time I see her, she'll be rather nasty or insulting to me. It negates any progress every time.
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson
M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012