I was going through some boxes full of old papers and stuff that I have kept, and I came across some emails that I had run across from my W to one of her friends and her sister. I found them bc W had left her email open... I hadn't been snooping.
Anyway, they are from the time when I first took her shopping for engagement rings. She was so excited. Reading the emails today made me very sad and choked me up.
I want to put them here bc they mean something to me now...
Nothing too exciting so only read if you are bored. LOL
W: "You'll never guess what we were looking at today!!"
W: "Trent just said... let's go in here... and we went into John Atencio... then Tiffany.. then Bailey... I was so freaked out and shocked... and excited of course!! He just wanted some ideas... he was really calm... funny how i was freaked out and he was calm. Anyway, he said it wouldn't be for Christmas... He wouldn't give me any idea of when or which on or how or anything! He still wants to do it on his own.. his way. So... I'll drop it from her on out and let him do what he wants. I'm just happy he looked!"
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W: "So yesterday when we were window shopping, Denver and I ended up looking at rings!!!!!!!! He said let go in here... JA, Tiffany and Bailey. I told mom and F, but please don't tell anyone else!!!!!!!!! Not even BIL. I don't want Denver to feel like everyone knows. Thanks!"
SIL: "WOW. I can't believe that. That is exciting. I hope that he follows through! soon. Hahah. My fingers are crossed for you."
W: "Please don't say anything to BIL. He might slip up. I just don't want Denver NOT to ask because he feels like everyone is watching and waiting now. I was afraid to say anything to anyone bc he could wait for another year and we'd all be waiting. I also think he wants to do this on his own and not to have everyone involved."
SIL: "I don't think that would be a reason for him not to ask. Whatevah. We have all been waiting for a while now anyhow (and I'm sure he knows it. haha)."
W: "The rings we saw were beautiful! I know nothing about any of it though. Denver asked me if quality is more important to me than size. What do you think?"
SIL: "I would pick quality before size. Maybe not the very top notch, completely clear and no inclusions though. I suspect Denver would get you a decent size ring anyhow. Whatever you get, it's a gift from the heart and you will love it."
W: "We both seem to like round cut and platinum. I'm not going to say anything further to him. I know that it'll be beautiful either wa. I'll send you a couple of pics."
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Sorry nothing too exciting. Just broke my heart to read these emails today.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Thanks!"