"I found out he is telling everyone that our D14 doesn't want to see him (lie), and then will tell others that he isn't allowed to see her."
It's a shield to protect his own pitiful self-esteem. After all, if it's everyone else's fault, he doesn't have to take the blame for anything.
Continue to be the mother you need to be for your D. As hard as it is, don't hinge on the "hope" of your H doing something. Right now put him out of your mind and concentrate on making your life the best it can be.
In MLC he's revisiting what he perceives are his past "mistakes" and trying to correct them. I read somewhere that if you looked at how your spouse was in high school and how they are acting now, you will find out that they are behaving in the exact same way.
Put yourself first. Start by journaling what you are planning to do today (have lunch with a friend, etc.) and don't mention your H.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
