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Now that I'm getting ready to face some anger from my W when she gets served or finds out that I have a L to fight for custody of our kids, I need advice.

Right now the W and I are in a friendly place where we can communicate without any negative feelings, although I have been limiting my contact with her lately. I want to continue to take the high road when she goes off.

I suspect she's going to call me names, rewind the tape, blame me for all of her unhappiness, etc., etc. I'm trying to prepare myself for what she throws at me.

I'm thinking act "as if" everything will be fine and go in with a positive attitude, don't get defensive, however don't take any unnecessary verbal abuse.

I can use some help with this.