OK... 81 Days

[Denver_2010]

Denver did I read that right?

You are worried that she is taking advantage of you.

IF I read that right, HOW can she be taking advantage of you if you let her. If you get something out of it and your eyes are wide?

You're a smart man, can you see advatnages of your own here?

It's like 'doormat'.
Are YOU a doormat? I'm asking YOU; no one else, I don't care what anyone else tells you. Only you.

Now; ask me if I was. You can ask anyone else. But the 'meat' of the matter, the answer is in how I feel.

I just need reminding sometimes Jack. Sometimes, when you begin to hear over and over that you are being a doormat, you begin to wonder 'maybe I am'. I guess that is what has been happening the past couple of days.

My goal is to save my M... not punish my W for anything that she has done. While I am not doing anything that I don't want to do, I also don't want to NOT do something just bc I feel that she has disrespected me in some way.

Thanks again.

Denver