When the LBS truly forgives themselves and let's go of a past they can't fix or change, the ability to see and make correct decisions for themselves is what turns them into the one walking away.
As for me, I've seen things in me that I would have NEVER seen if this hadn't had happened. For that I am truly appreciative. As for my ex, she still checks, she still plays the game, a game she has yet to learn how to play differently. Not because she doesn't want to; but because she doesn't know any better. I'm sad for her.
My opinion, she doesn't know what I have changed or what she will miss. Until she has the ability to figure that out for herself, there is NO way I'm just going to sit here and live in the past. Point? Own your part; Fix you; and move on. Turn it over to a higher power, validate her, don't judge. Be angry, but accept that you are in control of you and you alone. Your feelings should be constantly evaluated by YOURSELF.
She will always have to remember or think about me. Me? I will only remember what I did wrong and what can I do differently now.
