WAW, and a bisexual open marriage part 3

[MrBond]

"We guys have a real hard time admitting we need help. I explained to her how it was embarrassing for me to even admit that I log on here, and that out of shame I tried covering it up."

There is nothing wrong with learning a few things. Having a loving mature relationship isn't something you're born with, it's learned.
Learning about what drives your spouse and you is a great skill to have.

I mean so far your W has been doing great all on her own without any help right?

Consider these skills like tools in a utility belt. They'll help you to get what you want in the long run.