I'm going to need to take a leadership role regarding the upcoming vacation. My W is fretting that she will be bored and trapped on the trip. I'll get a travel book and look for ideas. I'll need to have a mindset that my W is priority on this trip, and give her priority as far as my time. This will keep me from feeling in the middle between she and my family. I can't please everyone. It's important that my effort goes towards my W.
My W threatened to quit the dance formation team due to my failure to practice. Last week, she was beaming because we were the best couple on the team. I told her that I would be upset, if she quit six weeks into this. I'm the one who takes the lead in encouraging us to practice, so that's not true. She was also embarrased because the teacher commented on my not touching her during one part of the routine (a sensitive subject). I see no valid reason to quit. We had a good practice sesion late last night. I'll hold my ground on this one, and let her know my feelings if she threatens again.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
