I often think of you.......so glad to see you happy...isn't it funny how when we first get here we are looking for that magic pill to fix our husbands and our wives....
And we wonderd will we ever feel better?...we will ever laugh again?...we we ever love and be loved again?..
For some in here, as yourself it does happen....I am no longer in here looking for the MAGIC PILL....just reading all the others who are like we were....wondering what the hell happened because we all were blindsided by the MLC monster.. Never saw it coming, at least not until we looked inside of ourselves,we did fail our spouses and they failed us...
It really does get better....we get better....and we do survive... Life is good now w/o my h just me and my daughter and of course the rest of the clan....my 2 grown boys, grandchildren..great grand children and my oldest daughter noW going thru her own MLC
All I can do is be there for her.... love her.....not judge her...all I can do is watch my SIL go thru what I have been thru and let him know life does get better and the pain will be no more.....
Mila, you have been such an inspiration to me may God bless you and give you the desires of your heart.....Irma
