So...am I still a newcomer?

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The money came from her personal account, but we can access each other's account information online.

W is going out after work with friends for a "girl's night out". In the 11+ years I have known her she has never gone out to a club/bar with only her friends. I'm not worried, but it is very much out of character for her.

It is also a bit frustrating because I would invite her to go out with me or with our friends and she nearly always declined; I can recall 1 time she accepted.

Just sayin...