I noticed that when I pulled back even a little, my W became more pleasant and more interested in what I was doing, where I was going, how my day was, etc. As soon as I started to even try to get closer, she backed off and the walls were up.
I'd say detach some more.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS