back again

[any chance?]

Can't get my brain around what is going on. We had a great day on Sunday, lots of adventure. Monday we had a appt with her L that the L cancelled, which depressed my W. Yesterday she seemed OK, called me at work a couple of times, we had dinner together.

She seems distant, cold. Tired all the time and depressed.

I am trying to DB, and be steady and consistant. Doing lots around the house, cooking dinner, trying to get her out of the house when possible. No prying, no R talk, acting as if the D is not even happening. Moving ahead with my work.

I have not even been back a week yet. Can't tell if she is glad to have me back or not. Can't really tell what is going on.

I am uncertain whether I keep on being a nice guy, taking care of her and the home, or if I should work on detaching, doing things without her, not really paying attention to what she is doing. Wish I knew what to do.