She has to see you as the person to be pursued. That's why when you confronted the OM and said you were done, she thought "whoah, I'm going to be left alone with no one." She has to want you. Don't make yourself too available. It's that pursuer/pursuee dynamic. She's starting to show some interest, now you have to slowly reel her in.
If you go after her wholeheartedly, then she knows that she's got you and not the other way around.
I agree 100%. Well put Mr. Bond. Well put.
Denver, don't put yourself on a pedestal that YOU are the man. You have a lot to prove too. It still rides on you and all your changes. You HAVE to be the man in the relationship. If you do this right she will pursue you. There will be no question when she wants to "Be with you, 100%".
