LOL AK no worries I know you are not. Don’t worry about mind f**king me any receptors left for processing feelings were burnt out over the course of the last 7 months.
Haha. Good. I hear you on that.
Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
1) Did you get asked that question? 2) If not. Let me ask at it. What would you do? At this point this is only information gathering. Call it a social experiment of sorts.
1) Yes, I did.
2) Long answer short. IF I was to see what I needed to see AND know/sense genuineness; AND I wasn't involved with some one else seriously. Why not. Anything that makes me have NO REGRET for the rest of MY life, is all I need. My choice. I came here for a reason, the reason I came here actually changed.
Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
What did he do?
He chose piecing (piercing). He is now happy and officially has a better M than it ever was. Not without hard work, but he made the right decision.
The moral of the story...Be the best you. Own your half. It takes 2 to ruin a marriage; one to change it. Ultimately, no regret is the only goal. When we all came here, we wanted to be understood and forgiven. One creates a misdemeanor and one commits a felony. The ability to forgive and show strength is the ability to move on and deal with any option that comes forward in life head on. Again, "You owe it to yourself" IF the opportunity would show itself under the right circumstances.
Not painting a picture of what is going to happen, more as a WHAT if it happens. If you are semi-anger free and have learned anything since coming here. You'll KNOW the right answer for you. If IT never happens, you should be able to move on for the rest of your life and apply everything you have learned.
