Believe me, this is wierd to for me too. I'm hoping that it will feel more natural after a while.
It does feel great to talk about it though. I don't talk about any of this in rl to other people.
I also think that this might be the only thing so far that will help H to moderate himself. And if that means we can have honest and calm discussions, on here or in rl, that's good in my book.
I've been reading this forum for a long time, I've read some to him, and he's been reading for quite a while before he started posting. This is like his therapist having a recorder attached to him when he's not in his office.
And by saying that, I don't mean that I want H to say what I WANT him to say. I want him to tell me what he thinks/feels, good or bad. Then we can go from there.