WAW in Los Angeles

[wawinla]

It's been awhile since I posted.

I've been continuing my GAL activities -- meeting friends, spending time with family. I still have highs and lows, so spending time here helps.

My wife has had no contact with me in over 8 weeks. As mentioned, she wants no contact. Since I responded to her filing, I have not heard anything. We need to discuss the unwinding, but no contact from her.

To Sandi's point a while back. if I reach out is that pursuing?

Thoughts?

I'm seeing an IC. During the sessions, they suggest communicating with my WAW when I feel it...to not accept my W terms of interaction. Counter to the 180, they don't view this as pursuing.

There are a lot of counselors out there and you will get confused if they do not paralleled with DB techniques. If your W does not want to interact with you, do you think it would be pursuing to do so anyway?