I think 25 said (or at least referenced) the only way through it is through it. Yeah, it'll be rough, but you have a lot of support here.

Concentrate on the good news that MIL will be ok. You will too.

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011