sometimes people hang on b/c they "don't give up easily...." which means
they're stubborn
or they have a desire to be vindicated, declared the "winner" or "right"....
or they literally don't know how to let go of something...
or they are Not Well. (Lots of labels for it, but it is what it is).
Your son's words should carry a lot more weight, imo.
His words rang true. Move on...it doesn't mean you can't rebuild someday...
but what you've done is make your ex w know you are
[b]always going to be available as Plan B and for 7 years now, that's been insufficient to her to return... [/b]
and your son is witnessing all this...and has said something to you that must have taken a real toll on him....
I ache for his pain and how you are glossing over it....and you're not hearing him!
What is it about his words that you can't handle? Me thinks it's the truth...
sorry
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
