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[25yearsmlc]

DG:

Thanks it is nice to be missed

[quote]The tricky part in all this is for her not to come back because she FAILED financially.

Honestly 9 this is not a concern for me at all. She is pretty proud and would rather eat grass than to come back because of money. Of this I am sure.

Do I want her back?

That is a good question.

I miss her and I do love her

At this point it would be as much a choice for me as it would for her. It would be a challenge for both of us I guess if I ever get there I would have to think about what I would do. If I was still M the answer would be clear but since I am not it becomes a little murky. [/quote


I just wanted to say something here, although it's a bit late. I know that in my sitch h was shocked (shocked I tell you!!) To learn from a L, that assets would be divided the way they would be divided...

and I thought, "geez, who wants a spouse to come home for money reasons?"

but you know, who cares WHY they do, IF they also do the work with you?

I mean, I knew one thing for sure about my h. He would NOT return if he believed he'd be miserable.

So he'd work on our m. As would I.


As for what motivated him, though I know, thankfully, there were other good loving reasons,

even if it had been solely a financial one, so what?

We did the work, still are a work in progress, etc.