Denver,
I'm very cautiously optimistic for your R. Part of that may be because I see you as a little further into the process than me and some vicarious living by me through your drama.

The blowup and the darkness may have sparked a little something inside her that was (and probably still is) hiding under all of her doubts. A little ray of sunshine cutting through the fog of her mind.

My W contacted me today after 25 days of darkness and me stating the same thing about the OM as you. First thing she asked was what my plans for the U2 concert were smile Told her I'd like her to come with me.

Tread cautiously but confidently. I really do have a good feeling for your R with your W.


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011