Betterman, Let her be ambivalent about your R. Let her have her doubts. Even if you make changes, she will have doubts about their permanence. Listen to what she's trying to tell you, even if it doesn't make sense. I had to listen to my W the other day tell how she felt disrespected, because I gave a piece of cheese to the dog.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
