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[Redo]

How sad that her actions have pushed me into a place that I did not want to go. I fought with every fiber not to go. I wanted to avoid it at all cost. Now I have to learn to move on and that is exactly what I am trying to do. I miss her terribly at times; sometimes I still want to scream. Every end is a new beginning; I am just ready to start mine.

This i truly get. In my own sitch, i wonder that after this trauma, do people ever become close even if they reconcile, or does the resentment, anger and despair just simmer but never extinguished.

Just to give you a perspective, I have noticed that with Indians if it comes to the point of divorce, very rarely do people fight for marriage. Yup, the LBS cries a lot and is devastated. But they just simply move on. Move on and either stay single or remarry. No regrets, no complications. This is just my observation. I could be wrong. But i wonder if all this is because when we do come to this terminal point, even if we get back together, the relationship is permanently broken.

I hope i am not sounding negative here. I too am going through the same motions as to whether i should just give up or still fight. As it is often said in this forum, the former is the easy path...