Whoa! That's a tough one Telemark! I am sorry to hear about this. What would be a 180 for you? Would a comprehensive financial discussion be in order? I take it she is takinb money from a joint account to give it to the OM? It sounds like you are taking a time out before you respond which is good. Don't worry about her going to Pittsburgh and the ensuing conversations. Remember, you can only control you. She ultimately doesn't need your permission to move out.
