I'm thinking of getting the Sex-Starved Wife and starting from there. Then again, I don't think I'm the norm . .. Always had a high sex drive, and pregnancy threw that into overdrive. I could understand my husband's trepidations, the big belly, and not being turned on to me . . but it's 4 months since the baby is born (via C-section). Recovery was swift and easy and I'm back to my old self (well, still have about 10 pounds to shed) but looking pretty damn good for a 40 year old who had a baby!
Yes children change everything, but I'm the one whose running around doing mommy-duty and everything else, and at the end of the night, when the baby is tucked into bed, the lawn is mowed and the kitchen cleaned . . . I want to jump his bones. Yes. Like I said earlier . . .I'm not the norm.
Maybe it's all the breast-feeding. Turns him off. But it ramps up my oxytocin and other hormones . . .
Can men get post-partum depression? I'd suggest he get seen for low testosterone, but you know how guys are about the doctor .. .
I still can't get him to even say the word "vasectomy" let alone talk to a doctor about one . . Guys just don't want to talk about their "man parts".
ME 40 HIM 48 Married one year. First for him Second for me Proud parents of a baby girl