I'm thinking of getting the Sex-Starved Wife and starting from there.
Then again, I don't think I'm the norm . ..
Always had a high sex drive, and pregnancy threw that into overdrive. I could understand my husband's trepidations, the big belly, and not being turned on to me . . but it's 4 months since the baby is born (via C-section). Recovery was swift and easy and I'm back to my old self (well, still have about 10 pounds to shed) but looking pretty damn good for a 40 year old who had a baby!

Yes children change everything, but I'm the one whose running around doing mommy-duty and everything else, and at the end of the night, when the baby is tucked into bed, the lawn is mowed and the kitchen cleaned . . . I want to jump his bones.
Yes. Like I said earlier . . .I'm not the norm.

Maybe it's all the breast-feeding. Turns him off. But it ramps up my oxytocin and other hormones . . .

Can men get post-partum depression?
I'd suggest he get seen for low testosterone, but you know how guys are about the doctor .. .

I still can't get him to even say the word "vasectomy" let alone talk to a doctor about one . . Guys just don't want to talk about their "man parts".


ME 40
HIM 48
Married one year.
First for him
Second for me
Proud parents of a baby girl