Thanks Sandi, I really wasn't sure whether I should post at all!
H seems to take days to write one post and then they seem to take another couple of days to appear. I registered a long time ago. I guess that's why mine aren't being moderated...
H read my post this morning before he went to work. He feels that this may be a turning point for him. He said that everything is so perfectly set up for him to leave if in his words "he wanted to just go and hide". And that is an option if that's what he wants to do. He understands that there will be no more waffling. He has to get it now, or get out. He also said that he would do anything to go back in time and undo what he did. He doesn't know where he has been these past 3 years. He apologized for everything.
Only time will tell what happens now. I have heard how sorry he is for outbursts, only to have them happen again in a couple of days...
Hopefully we can have meaningful conversations here, because he can't very well yell at me
Something has shifted though, and that's a good thing whether it's for better or worse.
