And speaking of being used...

I've been juggling my work schedule and running around for weeks to ensure SS is picked up in the afternoon at his day program, and cared for at home when W is at work. She has told me repeatedly she cannot afford to pay someone to do that, yet she can afford to send OM a monthly stipend.

Do I ignore this? Do I confront? And if I do confront, do I tell her I will no longer be the 24/7 nanny to her S; she can pay for her own nanny. And I'm sure she will go on the offensive and attack me for prying.


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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