there are sexual orientation issues that make your case unique so I don't know what to tell you with that
but even so, there's a lot of value in this solution based approach.
Be in the now, forget about the long history or what happened when you were 5,
or issues with men or your dad,
b/c it's about doing what works in the marriage,
and NOT doing what does not work.
Simple but radical.
It really is unique
It will help your R's in the future. Give it a chance.
What have you got to lose?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016