And a truth dart that has been swimming around in me just WAITIng for the right time is this one:
Hurting people hurt people.
The next time my H says something nasty, this will be "thrown" at him. Along with:
I'm very sorry you are hurting H. I will know when you aren't in your own pain when you can speak decently to me.
What do you think?
How about just saying "I won't be talked to like that" or "Call me when you can speak with the respect I deserve" and then leave the room.
No need to psycho analyze him. Just set your boundaries and enforce them
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
