your last paragraph confuses me. I assume you realize that the saying means that
if someone mistreats you, it's on them. If you stick around even though there are no signs they
will change, and then they mistreat you again...it's on you. OF course they're still jerks...
was that your point?
Regardless,
since your first paragraph said you don't want to discuss particulars,
how can we help you most?
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