Mila, I am so impressed with how you have progressed. You are in a really good place, I think, and I admire your ability to see that there is still "fog" in him and you are going to continue to live your life for you. You are asking the "right" questions and you are detaching from what is probably toxic and giving him his space. DBing at its finest! I'm glad to hear of your happiness.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
