People Wondering about what you'd do if she came back...hmm
as you said
"entertaining the idea is pointless" and it is for now.
Right now, work on you and as far as she is concerned, we can all hope you two learn to communicate better...yeah...
but I'm not seeing a lot of movement TOWARDS a reconciliation now
but so what?
Yes it is pointless and I absolutely agree energy is better spent elsewhere.
Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
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"If she was to show you true repentance, you owe it to yourself to try"
Interesting comment AK.
Why?
Did she not owe it to us to try?
Is she worth the aggravation? The work that it will take? Again I speak as if I will have a chance to even decide this. People get D all the time. Why would my sitch be any different?
I'm not trying to mind f**k you, I promise.
I asked why too. I was almost irritated that it was even said.
It's really a self check of how far you have come and where you are at. It was a brilliant statement made by someone who was as done as you and I; and frustrated him when he actually had to make the toughest choice ever.
In NO way am I telling you to stand still or dwell on her becoming repentant any time soon, if ever. She has her own journey and that would be a waste of time for you keep checking or waiting. Moving forward and continuing to heal is the only option for now.
