GB,

Hey I am not raining on your parade...or not that much...

but just wish you guys could work on getting along, having a good SL and

not fighting (or fighting but resolving the conflicts--

it's not conflict itself that breaks up couples, it's how they get ignored/resolved/worsened...) for some amount of time...

AND THEN TOSS THE WRENCH IN.... laugh

and like YAH, I wish SO MUCH that you'd get some good C....


as for PM, I know what you mean about 'tame' materials.

Some of the "marriage/communication seminars we attended were so elementary that we realized, "OMG, are there couples who DON'T talk about that???"



Same with the required on post childbirth classes that explain BASIC anatomy to women...I got thru them with a straight face, for the most part...

Then again, we got a TON out of a workshop we attended 20 years ago, and it wasn't even FOR marriages, specifically. Then in 08 when we were piecing, we got

much more than I expected from Retrovaille. I mean I hoped for the best but it exceeded my expectations


but WE did the work, ya know?

And as YAH says, and I agree, a good MC would do wonders for you two.

(YAH, we're doing fine, thanks! Where's your thread? Sorry for hijacking GB)

Good luck GB, we're rooting for you.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change